We asked 100 people what love is... and got 100 different answers. Why? Because everyone understands this great force in a different way, and that is the key to healthy and harmonious relationships - to find out what love is to the people around you and to introduce them to your ideas about it.

The theory of the 5 love languages ​​is applicable to romantic partners as well as to all other relationships - with relatives, friends, colleagues. They help us understand how the person on the other side feels love most strongly. These can be words, quality time together, gestures of concern, receiving gifts or physical closeness, with the leading languages ​​for each person being two.

How do you find out what the leading love languages ​​of each person are?

If you are wondering what the leading love languages ​​of your partner, loved one or even yours are, pay attention to the small details. Is this person (or you) most moved by kind words of recognition and praise, does he/she want to hear how important he/she is to you, and maybe he/she is constantly planning your time together? Does he/she enjoy receiving gifts, or is it more important for him/her that you make him/her dinner and make sure he/she feels good? How often does he/she hug you, hold your hand when you walk together, and seek physical intimacy?

When you answer these questions, you will have a clear idea of ​​how to act in your relationship. And the best thing is that in addition to building a stable relationship, when you know a person’s love languages, you can also make the best surprises!

Choose a gift experience according to the 5 love languages 

We give you 5 ideas for experiences from Makaroon.bg, inspired by the 5 love languages, with which you can make the perfect gift for Valentine’s Day and for every day after!

1. Affirmative Words

People whose main language is affirmative words need to hear “I love you” more often than others. They feel good when you compliment them by encouraging them, praising them and expressing gratitude to them. They value verbal expression of feelings. Therefore, suitable experiences for them are those in which there is an authoritative figure who praises them – various cooking classes or other lessons, a course in ceramics, pottery, painting, stained glass, etc. Tastings are also a good idea if the person has knowledge, as you will be able to admire them for it.

When choosing the right gift, tailored to their interests, it is important not to miss the written message, because it will again consist of affirmative words. Our gift vouchers give you the opportunity to send a greeting to the person, which we advise you to take advantage of if your partner has such a main love language.

2. Quality time together

What does your partner mean when they tell you they need to spend time together? To turn off the household chores, household chores, phones, and often the TV. Quality time together is expressed in conversations, trips, trying something new, hobbies, and everything you do together - without other people and without anything to distract you. That's why experiences for two are the perfect gift for a person with this love language.

Be sure to pay attention to our dinners in different restaurants, vacations in beautiful places in the country, nature walks, adrenaline experiences, shared tastings and workshops.

3. Receiving gifts 

We don't know about you, but this is definitely one of the love languages ​​of Makaroon.bg! If your person also loves receiving gifts, because this way he is convinced of your feelings for him, then we have good news - you can choose from the experiences in our entire online store!

This love language does not mean expensive gifts. Such a person enjoys meaningful surprises, handmade items, symbolic gifts like a heart-shaped pebble, thoughtful gifts like the dinner you picked up on the way home.

However, with or without an occasion, if you want to please your loved one, check out our Boxy boxes, which are a ready-made gift with a selected selection of experiences. The options are many, including Boxy I love you, Boxy for the most special person, Boxy for you and many others.

4. Gestures of concern

People whose love language is this need to be shown their feelings through gestures that show how much we care about them. This includes helping them with the housework, making them coffee and breakfast, opening the door for them, helping with the car or shopping and whatever else you can think of. For people with this language, love is caring, and a gift says: “I’m thinking of you.”

Suitable surprises here are spa treatments for health and beauty, a romantic dinner, a professional photo shoot, a tasting, various art activities such as painting and wine and the like, a romantic trip. It is nice to share the gift and be together during the experience.

5. Physical closeness 

This is the language of love that most easily produces the hormone of happiness - through touch. For a person who values ​​physical closeness, importantand hugs, intimacy, holding hands and constant touching at all times. This makes the person feel sure that they are wanted and loved.

If your person has this leading love language, you can give him a massage or a whole spa weekend for the two of you, a dance lesson, a cooking class for two, a chocolate or wine tasting, an escape from the city, during which you will be able to enjoy each other's company to the fullest.

The perfect gift for February 14th and for any other occasion is not the most expensive, but the one chosen with care that makes the person feel special. Choose an experience that says exactly that and that speaks the same language as your partner - the language of love!